Thursday, May 19, 2011

My grandmother

My grandmother was a wonderful woman. This week I watched an interview I did with her in 1996, when she was 81 years old. I sat down with her and asked her about her life, videoed it, and sent it to all of my cousins...all 24 of them. I can not tell you how happy I am that I did that. That has been 15 years ago now and it does not seem that long ago. My grandmother passed away 3 years and 3 months after our talk. I only wish I had more 'normal' moments of my time spent with my grandmother on tape; the moments when we were just living our lives and doing everyday things.

When I was growing up I lived in GA and my grandmother lived in TN. We would see her at Christmas usually, sometimes Thanksgiving, and always during the summer. Some summers she would come spend a few weeks with us. Other summers my sister and I would go spend some time with her. We loved going to Granny's! Anytime we went to visit we could be sure there would be a Hershey's chocolate cake with coconut waiting for us. We would have cereal at her little kitchen table by the window that looked out onto my Uncle Jack's farm. I can sometimes still smell my Granny's house. Oh, how I love when that happens!

Granny was a lady with a wonderful sense of humor. She loved to laugh. She loved the children. I remember her always being interested in what my niece, Shelbie, was doing when she was 3, 4, and 5 years old. I only wish that my children could have had the chance to meet her. I was proud though that, when I was watching the video the other night and Chad came in the room, he was able to correctly answer my question of, "Do you know who this is?" I want them to know who she is and what she stood for. She was a believer in the traditional family. She raised her 8 children in the mountains of WV, grew what they ate, and went hunting for squirrels and rabbits with my grandpa. She had 3 babies in diapers at one time and remembered hanging diapers on the line in winter and her fingers freezing to the line. We have it so easy these days! I can't imagine working the way she worked. But those were the times. You just did what you had to do.

I miss my Granny. I miss the times spent in her house in TN, staying up late with my cousin, watching The Price Is Right with Granny sitting in her rocker, feeding the cats on her front porch, or just sitting and listening to the adults talk. It was a sense of belonging, of family. My family. And she was at the heart of it.

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Carter is 10!

My Baby turns 10 today. Where has the time gone? Go here to read how I feel about motherhood in general because everything I said when Chad turned 10 applies to Carter as well.

But Carter as an individual...WOW. Where do I start? Carter is an example of extremes. He is generally a very happy kid, laughing and cracking jokes, and just enjoying life. But, get him mad and you better watch out! It is all or nothing with him. I love his passion!

His babyhood included many sleepless nights. He just did not WANT to sleep through the night and there was no way I could make him. This was a big change from Chad and kind of rocked my world. He didn't want to miss any of the action I guess. But, OH, what a charmer he was. You couldn't be mad at Carter. He had a quick smile for everyone and was just so doggone CUTE! He has always been just loveably adorable. Even Uncle James can't resist Carter.

He is the youngest of the 3 boy cousins and he takes what comes with that. But he takes it in stride and shares and plays nice and wants everyone to be happy.

And if there is ONE thing he inherited from his Daddy it was a quick wit (and his looks and his dimple ...). He is a hilarious kid and always has a quick quip to make us laugh or keep things in perspective. He is incredibly insightful and you absolutely never know what Carter might say next. He keeps us laughing, that is for sure!

And did I mention brilliant? LOL He makes all A's in school with very little effort. He was in the gifted program in Columbia County, but didn't quite make it here in WV. He is very well behaved and always well liked by his teachers. School is no problem for Carter and I couldn't be more proud.

Carter is a wonderful friend, a perfect son, and a loving grandson. He loves soccer, music, and creating. He is a free spirit who loves life and is the most thankful child I've ever seen. He is 10. But he'll always be my baby.